How do you deal with a friend you don't understand? Everytime you think you've figured her out, she totally surprises you. Everytime you're sure you know how she's going to react, she does the exact opposite of what you thought. How can you ever understand something that drives you crazy to think about?
How do you deal with a friend who doesn't seem tot appreciate you? You think, 'Finally, something I can do to help,' and then she gets offended because it just so happened that you looked up a Bible verse. Then, you think maybe you can help her out by doing her laundry, and BAM! she yells at you. What about if you take her to and from work because she doesn't have a car or driver's liscence? Does she really appreciate you for that?
How do you deal with a afriend when you are completely different...yet so achingly the same? You both enjoy laughing at funny movies, each other, and each other's family...EVERYTHING! You both enjoy sappy romance movies that make you both cry. Then, though, there are so many things...unimportant thing you disagree on, like doing dishes, whether or not spaghetti sauce needs meat, who should sleep on the floor when there is only one bed that is too little to share. There are bing things, too, that you disagree on, stuff that is just funny when you think about it...like how to spend time with God, even though you both believe that you should spend time with Him; what exactly serving is, in relationto the church and Christians, even though you both believe serving is mimportant; and being arrogant...whether you are being arrogant about your beliefs or not.
How do you deal with a friend with whom you don't know how to deal?